Tuesday, March 18, 2014
Lois aka mom...god speed! Here's to being 30 again - I can picture you dancing a jig right now. You will be greatly missed by all who knew you. I am grateful that I had my time knowing you. The good times and the bad...you are and will always be a second mother to me. To my beautiful friends forever...Launa, Jennifer, Wendy...I leave a poem that helps me... How Do You Live Your Dash I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on her tombstone, from the beginning to the end. He noted that first came her date of birth, and spoke the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those years. (l941-2014) For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth, And now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth. For it matters not, how much we own, the cars, the house, the cash, What matters is how we live and love, and how we spend our dash. So think about this long and hard, are there things you'd like to change? For you never know how much time is left, that can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough to consider what's true and real, And always try to understand the way other people feel. And be less quick to anger, and show appreciation more And love the people in our lives like we've never loved before If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile, Remembering that this special dash might only last a little while. So, when your eulogy's being read with your life's actions to rehash, Would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash? Lois, Mom, Sister, Daughter, Friend...you lived your dash. Love one of your many daughters, Rhonda xoxoxoxo
